Pamela Anderson’s romantic story and her marriage to a builder she hired to repair her Canadian home separated a family of five, her ex said.
Anderson, 53, told DailyMailTV in an exclusive worldwide interview on Wednesday that she had married Dan Hayhurst, 40, her fifth husband.
But on Thursday, Hayhurst’s ex, named Carey alone, accused Anderson of being a “burglar” in an interview with The Sun.
Anderson’s wedding took place on Christmas Eve at her estate in Ladysmith, Vancouver Island.
We are very happy. I’m happier than I’ve ever been, “Anderson told DailyMailTV.
Pamela Anderson and Dan Hayhurst got married on her Vancouver Island property on Christmas Eve
Dan Hayhurst is photographed with his former partner Carey. Carey called Anderson a “burglar” after he stole Hayhurst and separated a happy family of five
The couple worked with RASTA Sanctuary, which provides a “home forever” for farm animals rescued from Vancouver Island. The sanctuary posted more photos of Anderson and her new husband on the job site and a video of Anderson feeding some cows
“It’s like a complete circle – coming home and falling in love with someone who is just like me, you know, I think the rest was a dream.
“This seems more like a reality and it’s just a good feeling to be home and be with someone who really cares about me and who I really am, who I think I am, you know, just like a girl, from the same area. and we get along great.
About the wedding, she said: “It was a short and sweet ceremony with a local pastor and simply natural. It was effortless, not stressful. It’s effortless to be together ‘
But Carey hit the star’s version of events.
“This is not the closed love story that is presented, everything is a facade,” she told The Sun.
“I decided to talk because I want people to know that my relationship of almost five years, with three children involved, ended because of the adventure in which Pam and Dan started while he was still with me.
“It is sad that people are celebrating this and cheering them on, when it began with deception, denials and overwhelming life choices for all the people involved.”
Carey told the newspaper that Hayhurst lived with her, her 21-year-old daughter Denise, and her two children until the summer.
The couple never married, but Carey said they are in an engaged relationship.
“We did everything together, like family vacations, family fishing trips, we worked together on family projects,” she said.
“We’ve always been us.”
Carey and Hayhurst met five years ago in a dating app and first lived in Squarmish before moving to Vancouver Island.
Denise worked for Anderson, and then Hayhurst was hired by her in the fall of 2019.
At first, Hayhurst complained about her boss, Carey said, and described her as “crazy.”
“I was married on the property I bought from my grandparents 25 years ago, here my parents were married and they are still together. I feel like I’ve made a complete circle, “Anderson said
The bridal bouquet was wrapped loosely in dusty blue tulle to match the dress and included a blue hydrangea, the echo of the ocean and the symbolization of the water element of emotion.
Anderson met Hayhurst, who lived locally on Vancouver Island at the beginning of the blockade
In a text shared with The Sun, he wrote: “The dragon has been released! Speaking of Pam.
In January 2020, Anderson was married to filmmaker Jon Peters, but broke up with him two weeks later and said it was never a real wedding.
Carey said, “I’d say, ‘What are you doing?’ You have to get out of that job. It’s crazy. It was a crazy time when she married that guy Jon Peters for two weeks.
“She told all the contractors that she was married, so when I saw the news about it, I sent a message to Dan.
He replied back, saying, “Hahaha is older than her father, but I think our money problems are over,” which is what he meant because the guy is rich.
“I thought he was quite ruthless with him.” He really didn’t seem to be able to handle it at all.
Carey said things started to change in late March, when the blockade began and Hayhurst spent more and more time with Anderson.
“The worm is back,” she said. “COVID happened and it seemed to happen overnight.
“Dan would stay at home and not come home, and here I take care of the children.
“At first he denied it when I confronted him, but eventually I asked him, ‘Are you sleeping with Pam?
He said, “All I’m going to say is that I’ve crossed the line.”
“At first he said, ‘I want you to stay in our house. I do not want you to leave. I just have to find out. ‘
– He later apologized to me. He said, “Carey, I love you. I don’t know what’s going on now. I’m not in my head right now. I’m not in a good space. ‘
“He asked me to give him time to find out, so I let him do what he was doing.
And there was no return until then. I had met Pam and gone to dinner with her. My daughter worked for her. I couldn’t believe it.
Anderson married Hayhurst without any friends or family present during the closing
Under the wedding dress, Pamela Anderson said she was wearing a pair of Hunter heavy rain boots while sitting on the muddy ground of her property.
“I’m exactly where I need to be – in the arms of a man who truly loves me,” Canadian Anderson told DailyMailTV in an exclusive interview. Anderson, originally from Canada, beams at bridal moments led by a local pastor, during which the couple read the traditional oaths
Carey said he moved in July. He has since put the house up for sale.
Carey’s 21-year-old daughter Denise, who worked as a worker at Anderson’s house, told The Sun that the couple managed to keep their relationship a secret, even though she worked at home with the two.
“I was shocked when I found out about it,” she said.
“I just thought, ‘How can that be?’ “I work here with them full time and I had no idea.
“And the fact that he had a family, we were a mixed family, he has two small children and, obviously, she is much older.
“What was his thought process?” What was going on in his mind?
I was so shocked. It’s as unreal as something straight out of the movies. I do not believe. Everyone thinks it’s this love story and no one knows that there was an adventure and that there is this family involved.
Denise said she and her mother were upset that Anderson described him as a dream come true when other people were involved.
“And I think the hardest part is that people are fed up with this one-sided fairy tale when, in reality, there are so many things alike,” Denise said.
“It simply came to our notice then. It was very hard for my mother.
“She intensified completely and was a full-time mother for those children. It was hard to watch her go through this.
“There was no hard patch or things were bad at home, things were completely normal throughout the work until this happened.”
She speculated that Anderson, who moved full-time to his Canadian hometown in 2019, will resume a jet-set life after the pandemic ended.
“I don’t see it working,” she said.
Carey concluded, “I just think, ‘Wow, who are you?’ Who is the man I’ve been with for five years? None of this makes sense.
Anderson’s representative has not yet responded to DailyMail.com’s request.